Letter #6094

6094 - The Foundation of Peace in Education

ו' אדר תשי"ח

The Rebbe expresses distress over internal conflicts and emphasizes that peace is the essential vessel for all Divine blessings. He urges those involved in holy education to find a path to unity, noting that when hearts truly seek connection, the Almighty grants success to their mission.

[ו' אדר תשי"ח]

בעתו קבלתי מכתבו, וכמובן אשר בריחוק מקום אי אפשר להכנס בגוף הענין והחילוקי דיעות שביניהם. ואין צריך לומר שהענין גרם לי צער רב.

מה שברור ומוכרח הוא שיהי' שלום בין כל אלה המעונינים ועוסקים בהחזקת היהדות והפצתה במחנם ובפרט בשטח החינוך על טהרת הקודש, ואם ירצו באמת לקרב הלבבות זל"ז שיהי' השלום שורר ביניהם, הרי בטח ימצאו הדרך לזה, וכמים הפנים אל הפנים כו', ואז יתן השם יתברך ויתעלה, שהשלום שלו ועושה שלום במרומיו ולא מצא כלי מחזיק ברכה אלא השלום, את ברכתו שלום וישפיע ברכה והצלחה ממרומיו שיצליחו בעבודתם בקדש וביחוד בשטח החינוך הכשר. וכיון שדבר זה נוגע לחינוכם וגורלם של כו"כ מבני ובנות ישראל, כדאית כל יגיעה והשתדלות בזה.

 

בידעי אשר העסקן הנכבד והנעלה איש המעלה בעל מדות תרומיות מו"מ באמונה וכו' וכו'... נמצא כעת במחנם ובמדינתם, התקוה תאמצני שעי"ז יצמח ויגדל ויתרבה השלום במחנם בקרוב ממש.

The Rebbe’s Plea for Peace: Insights from Igros Kodesh, Vol. 16

In Volume 16 of Igros Kodesh (Letter No. 6094), we find a powerful and timeless message from the Lubavitcher Rebbe regarding internal conflict and the necessity of unity. This letter, dated 6 Adar, 5718, addresses a situation where discord had broken out among community activists—a reality that, unfortunately, still resonates today.

The Pain of Discord

The Rebbe begins by acknowledging a letter he received detailing a dispute within a community. Often, when people are involved in a disagreement, they turn to the Rebbe, each side convinced they are right, hoping he will adjudicate the details.

However, the Rebbe’s response is striking: "It is understood that from a distance, I cannot enter into the actual substance of the matter or the specifics of the disagreements among you." The Rebbe wasn't interested in the "he-said, she-said" or the technicalities of who was right. Instead, he expressed the deep personal pain that such discord causes him. To the Rebbe, the specific details of the fight were less important than the devastating fact that there was a fight at all.

Peace: The Only Vessel for Blessing

The Rebbe pivots from the dispute to a non-negotiable principle: there must be peace among those occupied with strengthening and spreading Yiddishkeit. This is especially true for those involved in Chinuch (holy, pure education).

He places the responsibility directly on the individuals involved: "If you truly and truthfully desire to bring hearts closer together so that peace may rest among you, you will certainly find the way to achieve it."

To guide them, the Rebbe cites the verse, "As face reflects face in water..." (K’mayim hapanim el hapanim). He explains that if you approach your fellow with kindness and a genuine desire for peace, they will eventually reflect that same peaceful energy back to you.

The Stake of the Children

Why is the Rebbe so adamant? Because when activists and educators fight, the ultimate victims are the children. The Rebbe emphasizes that because the future of Jewish boys and girls is at stake, no amount of effort or "hard work" is too much when it comes to restoring peace.

He concludes with a beautiful blessing, noting that Hashem is the "Owner of Peace." Since our Sages teach that Hashem found no vessel capable of holding blessing other than peace, it is only through unity that the community can receive a flow of success from Above.

A Path Forward

The Rebbe mentions an honorable activist of high character who was visiting that community at the time, expressing hope that this individual’s presence would help "sprout" a new era of peace.

The lesson for us is clear: We don't need the Rebbe to adjudicate our petty differences. We need to realize that our shared mission—the education of our children and the spreading of light—is far more important than being "right." When we show a face of peace, Hashem provides the blessing.


Summary of Key Lessons

  • The Rebbe’s Pain: Disunity among Chassidim and activists causes the Rebbe deep personal distress.

  • The Onus of Peace: Peace is a choice. If you truthfully want it, you will find the path to it.

  • The Reflection Principle: Use the "water" method—approach others with kindness to receive kindness in return.

  • The Mission First: Internal conflicts directly hurt the quality of Jewish education; the mission must outweigh personal egos.

  • The Ultimate Vessel: Without peace, there is no "container" to hold the blessings Hashem wants to give us.

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