Overview:
The Power of Speech in Parshas Emor
This discussion explores the deeper meaning of the Torah portion Emor, with a focus on the transformative power of speech. It begins by highlighting that the names of Torah portions are not arbitrary—they carry spiritual significance and can influence attitudes and behavior.
Central to the message is the impact of lashon hara (negative speech), as taught in the Talmud, which states that harmful words affect three people: the speaker, the listener, and the one being spoken about. In contrast, positive and uplifting words have the power to inspire, elevate, and even sanctify Hashem's name.
The speaker illustrates these ideas with the story in the Talmuc Bava Metzia 85b of Rabbi Eliezer’s son and the influence of Rabbi Levi Yitzchok Wolosow’s kind and encouraging words—showing how thoughtful speech can awaken greatness in others and leave a lasting spiritual impact.
The Power of Speech in Parshas Emor
This reflection on Parshas Emor centers around the profound influence of speech and the spiritual significance of names. Speaker opens by discussing how a name reflects a person’s soul and their connection to Hashem. The process of naming a child is portrayed not as a random choice but as a form of prophecy—parents are granted a deep, intuitive understanding of the name that is meant for their child. This significance isn’t limited to people; every letter and every name in creation carries purpose. Even the names of Torah portions, such as Emor, are divinely meaningful.
The word Emor, meaning "say," serves as the foundation for a broader exploration of the power of speech. Speech has the capacity to build or destroy, to uplift or damage. The discussion emphasizes the dangers of lashon hara (evil speech), referencing the teaching from the Gemara that such speech harms three individuals: the one who speaks it, the one who hears it, and the one who is spoken about. Moreover, negative speech is likened to unleashing destructive forces into the world, which can force Hashem’s hand in judgment.
In contrast, positive speech holds transformative power. By recognizing and verbalizing someone’s good traits, we help bring those traits to life. The story of Rabbi Eliezer’s grandson illustrates this idea beautifully: his return and growth were sparked by kind, encouraging words. Speaker emphasizes that even when confronting someone's shortcomings, it is essential to focus on their inherent goodness. Just as Hashem created the world through speech, so too our words carry the potential to create light and blessing.
Positive speech also plays a vital role in encouraging religious observance. It can inspire others to keep Shabbos, study Torah, and engage more deeply with mitzvos. Speaking favorably about others awakens their spiritual potential. This concept is exemplified in the story of Rabbi Levi Yitzchok Wolosow, whose thoughtful and kind words had a profound and lasting effect on those around him.
On both a personal and communal level, positive speech leads to growth. It fosters unity, kindness, and spiritual elevation. The message of Emor is clear: our words matter deeply. When we speak kindly, we not only build others up but also make the world a more Godly place.
Speech can even serve as a form of Kiddush Hashem, the sanctification of God's name. While martyrdom is a powerful example, everyday speech can also achieve this sanctity by revealing the divine image within each person. By bringing out the good in others, we reflect the greatness of Hashem Himself.
This responsibility lies especially with religious leaders. Their words must guide and inspire, even in moments of challenge or rebuke. Positive speech builds trust, fosters connection, and leads both individuals and communities toward growth.
Ultimately, positive speech must become a way of life. In our daily interactions—at home, at work, in our communities—our words can either create or destroy. Choosing to speak kindly is not only a moral act; it is a spiritual mission. Through positive speech, we improve ourselves, elevate others, and fulfill the timeless lesson of Parshas Emor: to use our voice for holiness, healing, and light.