5896 —כיבוד הורה שנפטר על ידי פעולה והפצת תורה

B"H, the 4th of Kislev, 5718.

Brooklyn.

The Avrech Yosef sheyichyeh.

Shalom u'Vrachah!

I acknowledge receipt of your letter from Rosh Chodesh Kislev, and regarding your question about participating in a gathering, etc. Since this depends on several details (the nature of the gathering and the manner of participation), you should present the matter to a halachic authority in your area, and he will guide you.

Surely you are aware of what is brought in the sefarim regarding the ways children can bring satisfaction to the souls of their parents; among the main points is involvement in spreading Torah and its mitzvos (see also Zohar III, end of Parshas Bechukosai). Certainly you know how much your father, of blessed memory, devoted himself with self-sacrifice for Chassidus in general and especially for its dissemination. Therefore, I hope that you too will strive as much as possible in this area—especially during the year of mourning. Your merit (and also responsibility) here is many times greater since your situation allows you to influence a particular circle, especially your own class. Nothing stands in the way of willpower.

You surely know about the three daily study portions—Chumash, Tehillim, and Tanya—which we heard from my revered father-in-law, the Rebbe zatzal (may his merit protect us), that they are suitable for everyone and serve as a remedy for many matters. At any rate, observe them from now on.

With blessing.

Summary

The Rebbe teaches that honoring a departed parent is best accomplished by actively spreading Torah and mitzvos. Consulting halachic authority ensures proper conduct during mourning, while personal growth and outreach bring true merit to one's parent's soul.