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שלום וברכה!
לאחרי
שתנהל המדוברת תי' בפועל חיי יום יום כדרוש ע"פ שו"ע – במשך שבועות אחדים, כן יסבירוה דיני טהמש"פ –
ואם גם לאחר זה תחליט בתוקף שמקבלת כ"ז ע"ע – יגמרו בטוב ויהא השידוך בשטומו"צ.
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Shalom u'Vrachah!
After the woman in question actually conducts her daily life as required according to Shulchan Aruch for several weeks, and she is also taught the laws of family purity, if after this she firmly decides to accept, then everything should conclude well and the shidduch should be completed successfully, with blessing.
Summary
The Rebbe teaches that proper daily conduct and education in halachah are essential before making important life decisions such as a shidduch, ensuring a strong foundation for success.