[ה'תשל"ב]
שלום וברכה!
עפ"ז יגמרו השידוך בשטומו"צ (באם הורי' שי' ג"כ מסכימים ע"ז) – אבל בכדי למנוע שקו"ט לאח"ז – כדאי שידברו לא רק במושגים
כללים
"ע"פ תומ"צ" וכיו"ב – אלא גם בפרטים:
פּאַריק
, שיעור בתורה בכל יום, וכמה, ואיפוא,
וכו'
,
גם כל השמות שלו ואזכיר עה"צ.
Shalom u'Vrachah!
According to what was discussed, the shidduch should be completed in its entirety (if the parents agree to this). However, in order to prevent any misunderstandings afterward, it is advisable that they speak not only in general terms according to custom and so forth, but also about specifics: farak (dowry), daily Torah study—how much, where, etc.—as well as all his names. I will mention them at the Tziyun.
Summary
The Rebbe teaches that when finalizing a shidduch, it is important to clarify practical details beyond general agreements to ensure harmony and understanding. He also offers his prayers at the Tziyun for their success.