10958 —הבהרת תפקידי עבודה והדרכה על שידוך הבת

Clarification of Job Duties and Guidance on Daughter's Match

[ה'תשל"ג]
The Rebbe advises that job responsibilities should be clearly written to avoid disagreements, and if there is no encroachment, the offer should be accepted. Regarding her daughter, he encourages effort toward a suitable match in an appropriate manner and says he will mention them at the gravesite.
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[ה'תשל"ג]

שלום וברכה!

תבקש שיהיו

כתובים

פרטי תפקידה (שלא יהיו אח"כ חילוקי דעות בזה). ובאם

תברר

שאין בזה השגת גבול – תקבל ההצעה ויהא בשטומו"צ.

בנוגע לבתה ... תי' – צריך להשתדל ע"ד שידוך מתאים ובאופן המתאים.

אזכיר עה"צ.

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Shalom u'Vrachah!

Request that the details of her job duties be written (so that there will not be any disagreements about this). And if you clarify that there is no encroachment on someone else's role—accept the offer and it should be with success.

Regarding her daughter ... may she live—it is necessary to strive until a suitable match is found, and in an appropriate manner. I will mention this at the gravesite.


Summary

The Rebbe teaches to ensure clarity in work responsibilities to prevent disputes, and to pursue a proper match for one's child with diligence and care, while relying on spiritual support through prayer.

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