10498 —הדרכה על החלטה לגבי הצעה ולקיחת זמן

Guidance on Deciding About a Proposal and Taking Time

ה'תשל"ב
The Rebbe writes that as long as her feelings about the proposal are unclear, she should not decide. Perhaps further meetings or a break will clarify her wishes. The matter depends on her, and the Rebbe will mention it at the gravesite.
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[ה'תשל"ב]

שלום וברכה!

כל

זמן שאין ברור אצלה יחסה לההצעה – הרי אא"פ שתחליט. ואולי ע"י שיפגשו עוה"פ יתברר רצונה, או להיפך – ע"י ההפסק למשך זמן.

ותלוי כ"ז בה.

אזכיר עה"צ.

5712.

Shalom u'Vrachah!

As long as her attitude toward the proposal is not clear, she should not make a decision. Perhaps by meeting again, her desire will become clear, or the opposite—by taking a break for some time. It all depends on her. I will mention it at the gravesite.


Summary

The Rebbe advises waiting until one's feelings are clear before making important decisions, suggesting that time or further meetings may help bring clarity.

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