10085 —הדרכה על ילד מאומץ, מגורים, שידוך, וגילוי

Guidance on Adopted Child, Residence, Shidduch, and Disclosure

ג' אדר, ה'תשל"א
The Rebbe addresses questions regarding an adopted child, where to live after studies, beginning to seek a suitable shidduch, and when or what to disclose. He advises consulting a qualified rabbinic authority for halachic matters and offers blessings.
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[ג' אדר, ה'תשל"א]

שלום וברכה!

בנוגע:

1) הילד המאומץ אם לעשות מה בזה – שאלה לרב מורה הוראה.

2) מגורי' לאחרי שתסיים לימודי' – במקומה עתה או בברוקלין, ותחליט סמוך להסיום יותר.

3) תתענין מעתה בשידוך מתאים.

4) מה ומתי לספר להמדובר – שאלה לרב מורה הוראה.

אזכיר עה"צ.

Gimel Adar, 5731.

Shalom u'Vrachah!

Regarding: 1) The adopted child—whether to take any action in this matter—this is a question for a rabbinic authority. 2) Her residence after she finishes her studies—whether to remain where she is now or move to Brooklyn—she should decide closer to the time of completion. 3) From now on, begin to look into a suitable shidduch. 4) What and when to tell the person in question—this is also a question for a rabbinic authority. I will mention it at the tziyun.


Summary

The Rebbe guides that halachic questions about adoption and disclosure should be addressed by a competent rabbi, advises delaying the decision about relocation until closer to graduation, and encourages beginning the search for a suitable shidduch now.

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