7712 —בנוגע להתנהגות שובבה בילד בכור והדרכה חינוכית

On Lively Behavior in a Firstborn Child and Educational Guidance

עש"ק פ' פנחס, שבת מברכין חדש מנחם אב, ה'תשכ"א
The Rebbe addresses concerns about a child's lively behavior, noting that such conduct is especially common in firstborns. He advises not to be overly concerned and suggests consulting experienced educators for guidance on improvement.
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שלום וברכה!

[עש"ק פ' פנחס, שבת מברכין חדש מנחם אב, ה'תשכ"א]

... בנוגע להנהגה שקוראה "שובב" - רגיל זה ביותר, ובפרט בילד ראשון. ובמילא אין להתרשם מזה כלל, ואיך לשפר הצריך שיפור בזה - מחנכים מנוסים בזה יורום ע"פ נסיונם...

נדפסה בלקו"ש חכ"ב ע' 434.

Shalom u'Vrachah! [Erev Shabbat Kodesh Parshat Pinchas, Shabbat Mevarchim Chodesh Menachem Av, 5721]

... Regarding the behavior called "shovav" (lively/mischievous) — this is very common, especially in a firstborn child. Therefore, there is no need to be concerned about it at all. As for how to improve what needs improvement in this area — experienced educators should be consulted for guidance based on their experience...


Summary

Lively or mischievous behavior is normal, particularly in firstborn children. The Rebbe writes not to worry and recommends seeking advice from experienced educators for appropriate educational approaches.

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