6118 - Putting Life’s Challenges in Proper Perspective

Transcribed and polished transcript
The Rebbe writes that he is responding to the recipient’s letter from Sunday. He notes that at an appropriate time he will mention her and her husband at the holy Tziyun of his father-in-law, the Rebbe, in accordance with the matters she wrote about—particularly regarding her husband’s health and the concerns she raised about their apartment.

The Rebbe explains that every person must recognize that in life there are matters of primary importance and matters that are secondary or of lesser importance. Among the most essential blessings are good health and the privilege of having nachas from one’s children. When these fundamental blessings are present, a person should keep other difficulties in perspective.

The Rebbe points out that in her situation the blessed Hashem has shown great kindness. She has been granted, without the evil eye, much Jewish nachas from children and grandchildren, and there has also been improvement in matters of health. Especially when she compares the current situation with how things were previously, it is clear that each day calls for praise and gratitude to Hashem for His great kindness.

Even more important, the Rebbe writes, is that recognizing these blessings should strengthen one’s trust in Hashem. When a person reflects on the many kindnesses already received, this increases confidence that Hashem will continue to provide blessing and success in all that is needed.

For this reason, the Rebbe explains, there is no basis to become overly distressed about the problems concerning the apartment. Such matters will likely resolve themselves in a good way, and in any case they should not be allowed to cause undue worry. A person cannot always know what is truly best, and what initially appears to be a problem may ultimately prove to be beneficial.

Regarding her practical question about the apartment, the Rebbe advises that she should proceed in a normal and calm manner. She may look for another apartment, but there is no need to rush or become anxious about the situation.

The Rebbe adds that practically speaking this would apply after Pesach. If, however, a suitable opportunity should arise before Pesach, it may be worthwhile to consider it. In that case it could even spare the effort involved in preparing the current apartment for Pesach.

The main point, the Rebbe emphasizes, is not to allow the matter to cause worry and instead to strengthen one’s trust in Hashem. Through such trust, one will see Hashem’s blessing and success in all matters.

In a postscript, the Rebbe addresses her concern about repaying a debt. He reassures her not to worry about this matter. When their financial situation improves and it becomes easier, they can then resume payments. Until then, she should not allow this concern to trouble her.

Summary
The Rebbe reassures the recipient that her concerns about health, housing, and finances should be viewed in proper perspective. Emphasizing gratitude for the blessings of health and family, the Rebbe encourages strengthening trust in Hashem and avoiding unnecessary worry. Practical guidance is offered regarding the apartment and financial obligations, together with blessings for continued health and success.