[ח' אלול, ה'תשל"ג]
שלום וברכה!
ישנם
כו"כ ענינים שכל זמן שאין מדברים אודותם בשימת לב
מיוחדה
, אין אומרים שאולי יש בזה צד בלתי רצוי וכו' יש לעשותם – אבל הדיבור עצמו (הנ"ל) עושה אותם לדבר שיכול להביא – הפכו של תועלת. ולכן כדאי למצוא אשה שתתעסק בהנ"ל מכאן ולהבא.
Ches Elul, 5733.
Shalom u'Vrachah!
There are certain matters that as long as they are not discussed with special attention, one cannot say that perhaps there is something undesirable about them, etc.—they should be done. However, the very act of speaking about them (as above) can make them into something that could bring about the opposite of benefit. Therefore, it is advisable to find a woman who will take care of these matters from now on.
Summary
The Rebbe teaches that some sensitive issues are best left undiscussed to avoid unintended problems and suggests delegating such responsibilities to someone else when appropriate.