[כ' אדר א', ה'תשל"ג]
שלום וברכה!
(1)
אינו
דומה
כלל
, שהרי יכול לבוא ליום דהתועדות וכיו"ב.
(2) לא עניתיו לא שלילי וגם לא חיובי – כ"א דבר
ברור
שתלוי בהרגש שלו, וזהו המענה גם עתה. ומהו ההרגש שלו – עליו להחליט.
20 Adar I, 5733.
Shalom u'Vrachah!
It is not comparable at all, for he can come to the day of the farbrengen and similar occasions.
I did not answer him negatively nor positively—because it is clear that it depends on his own feeling, and this is also the answer now. What his feeling is—he must decide.
Summary
The Rebbe teaches that certain decisions depend on one's personal feeling and initiative; guidance may not always be explicit, leaving room for individual choice and responsibility.