1. The Uniqueness of the 15th of Av
The 15th day of Av, known as Tu B’Av—the fifteenth of Av, is described in the Talmud as one of the greatest holidays, on par with Yom Kippur. The Gemara questions what makes this day so special and provides various reasons for its significance. Among them is the fact that it was a time when many marriages took place, marking a period of great joy for the Jewish people. While Yom Kippur is celebrated as a day of forgiveness, the 15th of Av stands out for its own unique reasons.2. Halachic Customs: Omission of Tachannun and Fasting
Because Tu B’Av is considered a holiday, we do not recite Tachannun—the supplicatory prayer—on this day. This omission extends to Mincha—the afternoon prayer—of the 14th of Menachem Av, as it is already considered Erev (the eve of) the holiday. The seriousness of this holiday is further emphasized by the tradition that even a chosun—a groom—who would typically fast on his wedding day does not fast if his wedding falls on the 15th of Av.3. Blessing the New Moon and Spiritual Renewal
The Rebbe highlights that this period is especially fitting for performing Kiddush Levanah—sanctification of the new moon. We specifically wait until after Tisha B’Av to bless the new moon, symbolizing renewal and growth following a period of mourning. The moon represents the Jewish people: just as it wanes and then grows again, so too do we experience renewal after times of decline. This time calls for increased spiritual arousal and making positive decisions in all matters related to repentance, Torah study, and mitzvos.4. Increasing Torah Study and Public Gatherings
The Rebbe encourages organizing joyful gatherings beginning from the 15th of Av and continuing through subsequent Shabbosim such as Shabbos Nachamu and Shabbos Mevorchim Elul. These gatherings should focus on words of Torah, which have the power to bring joy and break through all boundaries. The emphasis is on increasing commitment to Torah and mitzvos in a joyful manner, making these days an opportunity for communal strengthening.5. Demonstrating Joy: Feasts, Siyumim, and Tzedakah
To make evident the greatness of this holiday, it is important not only to omit Tachannun, but also to actively celebrate with visible joy. This includes increasing Torah study, organizing public gatherings (farbrengens) with meals (sudos), and ideally making a siyum mesechta—completion of a tractate—especially Mesechta Ta’anis which discusses Tu B’Av itself. Giving tzedakah and making good resolutions in Torah observance are also encouraged. The gatherings should be filled with happiness akin to that found at weddings, especially since many weddings take place after Tisha B’Av due to restrictions during the Three Weeks.6. Blessings for a Good Year: Ksiva V’Chasimah Toivah
It is customary during this time to bless one another with a ksiva v’chasimah toivah—to be written and sealed for a good year—as hinted in the mazal (zodiac sign) Aryeh (lion) associated with Menachem Av, which alludes to Elul, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Hoshana Rabbah, and their associated blessings.7. Reasons for Celebration: Historical Events on Tu B’Av
The Gemara lists several historical events that contribute to Tu B’Av’s status as a joyous day:- The cessation of deaths among those decreed to die in the desert.
- The resumption of Hashem’s direct communication with Moshe Rabbeinu.
- The lifting of marriage restrictions between tribes following disputes such as those involving Shevet Binyamin.
- The completion of cutting wood for use in the Beis Hamikdash’s altar.
- The removal of barriers preventing Jews from ascending to Jerusalem during certain periods.
- The permission granted to bury those killed at Betar after Bar Kochba’s revolt—a miracle marked by their bodies not decomposing.
- The breaking of sickles used for woodcutting (Yom Tavar Magal) symbolizing completion and joy similar to finishing a tractate.
- The nights begin growing longer after Tu B’Av, providing more time for Torah study.
8. Conclusion: Embracing Joyful Renewal After Mourning
The transition from Tisha B’Av’s mourning to Tu B’Av’s celebration underscores our ability to renew ourselves spiritually and communally. By increasing Torah study, good deeds, joyful gatherings, and mutual blessings during this auspicious time, we prepare ourselves for a year filled with goodness and spiritual growth—transforming sorrow into lasting joy as exemplified by Tu B’Av’s unique place in our tradition.