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015 - הִלְכוֹת אִסּוּרֵי בִּיאָה פֵּרֶק טו

Hilchos Issurei Bi'ah, Perek 15

הִלְכוֹת אִסּוּרֵי בִּיאָה פֵּרֶק טו

א אֵיזֶה הוּא "מַמְזֵר" (דברים כג,ג) הָאָמוּר בַּתּוֹרָה: זֶה הַבָּא מֵעֶרְוָה מִן הָעֲרָיוֹת--חוּץ מִן הַנִּדָּה, שֶׁהַבֵּן מִמֶּנָּה פָּגוּם וְאֵינוּ מַמְזֵר; אֲבָל הַבָּא עַל שְׁאָר הָעֲרָיוֹת--בֵּין בְּאֹנֶס בֵּין בְּרָצוֹן, בֵּין בְּזָדוֹן בֵּין בִּשְׁגָגָה--הַוֶּלֶד מַמְזֵר. וְאֶחָד זְכָרִים וְאֶחָד נְקֵבוֹת, אֲסוּרִין לְעוֹלָם--שֶׁנֶּאֱמָר "גַּם דּוֹר עֲשִׂירִי, לֹא-יָבֹא" (שם), כְּלוֹמַר לְעוֹלָם.

ב אֶחָד מַמְזֵר שֶׁנָּשָׂא יִשְׂרְאֵלִית, אוֹ יִשְׂרְאֵלִי שֶׁנָּשָׂא מַמְזֶרֶת--כֵּיוָן שֶׁבָּעֲלוּ אַחַר הַקִּדּוּשִׁין, לוֹקִין; קִדַּשׁ וְלֹא בָעַל, אֵינוּ לוֹקֶה. בָּעַל וְלֹא קִדַּשׁ, אֵינָן לוֹקִין מִשּׁוֹם מַמְזֶרֶת--שְׁאֵין לָךְ בְּכָל חַיָּבֵי לָאוִין מִי שֶׁלּוֹקֶה עַל בְּעִילָה בְּלֹא קִדּוּשִׁין, אֵלָא כּוֹהֵן גָּדוֹל בְּאַלְמָנָה כְּמוֹ שֶׁיִּתְבָּאַר. הַמַּחְזִיר גְּרוּשָׁתוֹ מִשֶּׁנִּשֵּׂאת--הַוֶּלֶד כָּשֵׁר, שֶׁהֲרֵי אֵינָהּ עֶרְוָה.

ג גּוֹי וְעֶבֶד הַבָּא עַל בַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל, הַוֶּלֶד כָּשֵׁר--בֵּין בִּפְנוּיָה בֵּין בְּאֵשֶׁת אִישׁ, בֵּין בְּאֹנֶס בֵּין בְּרָצוֹן; וְגוֹי וְעֶבֶד הַבָּאִים עַל הַמַּמְזֶרֶת, הַוֶּלֶד מַמְזֵר. וּמַמְזֵר הַבָּא עַל הַגּוֹיָה, הַוֶּלֶד גּוֹי; נִתְגַּיַּר, הֲרֵי הוּא כָּשֵׁר כִּשְׁאָר גֵּרִים. וְאִם בָּא עַל הַשִּׁפְחָה, הַוֶּלֶד עֶבֶד; שִׁחְרְרוֹ, הַוֶּלֶד כָּשֵׁר כִּשְׁאָר עֲבָדִים מְשֻׁחְרָרִין, וּמֻתָּר בְּבַת יִשְׂרָאֵל.

ד זֶה הַכְּלָל: בֶּן הַבָּא מִן הָעֶבֶד, אוֹ מִן הַגּוֹי, אוֹ מִן הַשִּׁפְחָה, אוֹ מִן הַגּוֹיָה--הֲרֵי הוּא כְּאִמּוֹ, וְאֵין מַשְׁגִּיחִין עַל הָאָב. לְפִי דָּבָר זֶה, הִתִּירוּ לְמַמְזֵר לִשָּׂא שִׁפְחָה כְּדֵי לְטַהַר אֶת בָּנָיו--שֶׁהֲרֵי הוּא מְשַׁחְרֵר אוֹתָם, וְנִמְצְאוּ בְּנֵי חוֹרִין; וְלֹא גָזְרוּ עַל הַשִּׁפְחָה לְמַמְזֵר, מִפְּנֵי תַּקָּנַת בָּנִים.

ה מִי שֶׁחֶצְיוֹ עֶבֶד וְחֶצְיוֹ בֶּן חוֹרִין, הַבָּא עַל אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ--אוֹתוֹ הַבֵּן--אֵין לוֹ תַּקָּנָה, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁצַּד מַמְזְרוּת וְצַד עַבְדוּת מְעֹרָבִין בּוֹ; לְפִיכָּךְ אָסוּר בְּשִׁפְחָה, וְנִמְצְאוּ בָנָיו כְּמוֹתוֹ לְעוֹלָם.

ו גּוֹי הַבָּא עַל הַשִּׁפְחָה שֶׁטָּבְלָה, הֲרֵי זֶה עֶבֶד, וְעֶבֶד שֶׁטָּבַל שֶׁבָּא עַל הַגּוֹיָה, הַוֶּלֶד גּוֹי--הַלַּךְ אַחַר הָאֵם; אֲבָל גּוֹי הַבָּא עַל שִׁפְחָה גּוֹיָה, אוֹ עֶבֶד גּוֹי שֶׁבָּא עַל גּוֹיָה בַּת חוֹרִין--הַלַּךְ אַחַר הַזָּכָר.

ז מַמְזֵר מֻתָּר לִשָּׂא גִּיּוֹרֶת, וְכֵן הַמַּמְזֶרֶת מֻתֶּרֶת לַגֵּר; וְהַבָּנִים מִשְּׁנֵיהֶם מַמְזְרִים, שֶׁהַוֶּלֶד הוֹלֵךְ אַחַר הַפָּגוּם: שֶׁנֶּאֱמָר "בִּקְהַל ה'" (דברים כג,ג), וּקְהַל גֵּרִים אֵינוּ קָרוּי קְהַל ה'.

ח גִּיּוֹרֶת שֶׁנִּשֵּׂאת לְגֵר, וְהוֹלִידוּ בֵּן--אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהוֹרָתוֹ וְלִידָתוֹ בִּקְדֻשָּׁה, הֲרֵי זֶה מֻתָּר בְּמַמְזֶרֶת. וְכֵן בֶּן בֶּן בְּנוֹ עַד שֶׁיִּשְׁתַּקַּע שֵׁם גֵּיוּתוֹ מִמֶּנּוּ, וְלֹא יִוָּדַע שְׁהוּא גֵּר; וְאַחַר כָּךְ יֵאָסֵר בְּמַמְזֶרֶת. וְאֶחָד הַגֵּרִים וְאֶחָד עֲבָדִים מְשֻׁחְרָרִין, דִּין אֶחָד לְכֻלָּן.

ט גֵּר שֶׁנָּשָׂא בַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל, אוֹ יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁנָּשָׂא גִּיּוֹרֶת--הַוֶּלֶד יִשְׂרְאֵלִי לְכָל דָּבָר, וְאָסוּר בְּמַמְזֶרֶת.

י שְׁלוֹשָׁה מַמְזְרִים הֶם--מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי, וּמַמְזֵר סָפֵק, וּמַמְזֵר מִדִּבְרֵי סוֹפְרִים. אֵיזֶה הוּא מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי--זֶה שֶׁבָּא מִן הָעֶרְוָה הַוַּדָּאִית, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ; וּמַמְזֵר סָפֵק--זֶה שֶׁבָּא מִסְּפֵק עֶרְוָה, כְּגוֹן הַבָּא עַל אִשָּׁה שֶׁנִּתְקַדְּשָׁה סְפֵק קִדּוּשִׁין, אוֹ נִתְגָּרְשָׁה סְפֵק גֵּרוּשִׁין, וְכַיּוֹצֶא בָּהֶן. הָאִשָּׁה שֶׁשָּׁמְעָה שֶׁמֵּת בַּעְלָהּ, וְנִשֵּׂאת, וַהֲרֵי בַּעְלָהּ קַיָּם, וּבָא בַּעְלָהּ עָלֶיהָ וְהִיא תַּחַת הַשֵּׁנִי--הֲרֵי הַבֵּן מַמְזֵר מִדִּבְרֵי סוֹפְרִים.

יא פְּנוּיָה שֶׁנִּתְעַבְּרָה מִזְּנוּת, אָמְרוּ לָהּ מַה הוּא הָעֹבֶר הַזֶּה אוֹ הַיִּלּוֹד הַזֶּה--אִם אָמְרָה בֶּן כָּשֵׁר הוּא, וּלְיִשְׂרָאֵל נִבְעַלְתִּי--הֲרֵי זוֹ נֶאֱמֶנֶת, וְהַבֵּן כָּשֵׁר: וְאַף עַל פִּי שֶׁרֹב הָעִיר שֶׁזִּנְּתָה בָּהּ פְּסוּלִים.

יב וְאִם לֹא נִבְדְּקָה אִמּוֹ עַד שֶׁמֵּתָה, אוֹ שֶׁהָיְתָה חֵרֶשֶׁת אוֹ אִלֶּמֶת אוֹ שׁוֹטָה, אוֹ שֶׁאָמְרָה לִפְלוֹנִי הַמַּמְזֵר נִבְעַלְתִּי, אוֹ לִפְלוֹנִי הַנָּתִין, אַפִלּוּ אוֹתוֹ פְּלוֹנִי מוֹדֶה שְׁהוּא מִמֶּנּוּ--הֲרֵי זֶה הַוֶּלֶד סְפֵק מַמְזֵר: כְּשֵׁם שֶׁזִּנָּת עִם זֶה שֶׁהוֹדָה לָהּ, כָּךְ זִנְּתָה עִם אַחֵר. וְזֶה הוּא הַנִּקְרָא שְׁתוּקִי--שֶׁמַּכִּיר אֶת אִמּוֹ, וְאֵינוּ מַכִּיר אֶת אָבִיו וַדַּאי.

יג וְכֵן הַבֵּן הַנִּמְצָא בַּשּׁוּק, וְהוּא הַנִּקְרָא אֲסוּפִי--הֲרֵי הוּא סְפֵק מַמְזֵר, שְׁאֵין אָנוּ יוֹדְעִים מַה הוּא.

יד פְּנוּיָה שֶׁזִּנְּתָה וְאָמְרָה, בֵּן זֶה בֶּן פְּלוֹנִי הוּא--אִם אוֹתוֹ פְּלוֹנִי כָּשֵׁר, הֲרֵי הַבֵּן כָּשֵׁר; וְאֵינָהּ נֶאֱמֶנֶת, לִהְיוֹת זֶה בְּנוֹ שֶׁלִּפְלוֹנִי. וְיֵרָאֶה לִי, שֶׁחוֹשְׁשִׁין לִדְבָרֶיהָ, וְיִהְיֶה הַבֵּן אָסוּר בִּקְרוֹבוֹת אוֹתוֹ פְּלוֹנִי, מִסָּפֵק. וְאִם אוֹתוֹ פְּלוֹנִי מַמְזֵר--אֵינָהּ נֶאֱמֶנֶת לִהְיוֹת הַבֵּן מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי עַל פִּיהָ, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ, אֵלָא יִהְיֶה סְפֵק מַמְזֵר.

טו אֲבָל הָאָב שֶׁהֻחְזַק שֶׁזֶּה בְּנוֹ, וְאָמַר בְּנִי זֶה מַמְזֵר הוּא--נֶאֱמָן; וְאִם יֵשׁ לַבֵּן בָּנִים--אֵינוּ נֶאֱמָן, שֶׁלֹּא הֶאֱמִינָה אוֹתוֹ תּוֹרָה אֵלָא עַל בְּנוֹ: שֶׁנֶּאֱמָר "כִּי אֶת-הַבְּכֹר בֶּן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה יַכִּיר" (דברים כא,יז), יַכִּירֶנּוּ לַאֲחֵרִים;

טז וּכְשֵׁם שֶׁנֶּאֱמָן לוֹמַר, בְּנִי זֶה בְּכוֹר--כָּךְ נֶאֱמָן לוֹמַר שְׁהוּא מַמְזֵר, אוֹ בֶּן גְּרוּשָׁה, אוֹ בֶּן חֲלוּצָה. וְכֵן אִם הָיְתָה אִשְׁתּוֹ מְעֻבֶּרֶת--נֶאֱמָן לוֹמַר עֹבֶר זֶה אֵינוּ בְּנִי, וּמַמְזֵר הוּא; וְיִהְיֶה מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי. וְהָאוֹמֵר עַל עַצְמוֹ שְׁהוּא מַמְזֵר, נֶאֱמָן לֶאֱסֹר עַצְמוֹ בְּבַת יִשְׂרָאֵל; וְאָסוּר בְּמַמְזֶרֶת, עַד שֶׁיִּוָּדַע שְׁהוּא מַמְזֵר. וּבְנוֹ כָּמוֹהוּ; וְאִם יֵשׁ לוֹ בְּנֵי בָּנִים--אֵינוּ נֶאֱמָן לִפְסֹל בְּנֵי בָּנָיו, וְלֹא יִפְסֹל אֵלָא עַצְמוֹ.

יז אֲרוּסָה שֶׁנִּתְעַבְּרָה, וְהִיא בְּבֵית אָבִיהָ--הֲרֵי הַוֶּלֶד בְּחֶזְקַת מַמְזֵר; וְאָסוּר בְּבַת יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְאָסוּר בְּמַמְזֶרֶת. וְאִם נִבְדְּקָה אִמּוֹ וְאָמְרָה, מֵאֲרוּסִי נִתְעַבַּרְתִּי--נֶאֱמֶנֶת, וְהַוֶּלֶד כָּשֵׁר. וְאִם הִכְחִישָׁהּ הָאָרוּס וְאָמַר, מֵעוֹלָם לֹא בָאתִי עָלֶיהָ--הֲרֵי הַוֶּלֶד מַמְזֵר: שֶׁאַפִלּוּ הָיָה בְּחֶזְקַת בְּנוֹ וְאָמַר, בְּנִי זֶה מַמְזֵר--נֶאֱמָן. וְהָאִשָּׁה אֵינָהּ בְּחֶזְקַת זוֹנָה, אֵלָא נֶאֱמֶנֶת לוֹמַר, לָאֲרוּסִי נִבְעַלְתִּי, וְאֵינָהּ זוֹנָה; וְאִם נִשֵּׂאת לְכוֹהֵן--לֹא תֵצֵא, וּוַלְדָהּ מִמֶּנּוּ כָּשֵׁר.

יח הָיוּ הָעָם מְרַנְּנִים אַחֲרֶיהָ, וְהִיא אֲרוּסָה, עִם אֲרוּסָהּ וְעִם אֲנָשִׁים אֲחֵרִים--אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁבָּא עָלֶיהָ אֲרוּסָהּ בְּבֵית חָמִיו, הֲרֵי זֶה סְפֵק מַמְזֵר: כְּשֵׁם שֶׁהִפְקִירָה עַצְמָהּ לַאֲרוּסָהּ, הִפְקִירָה לַאֲחֵרִים. וְאִם נִבְדְּקָה וְאָמְרָה, עֹבֶר זֶה מֵאֲרוּסִי--הֲרֵי זֶה כָּשֵׁר, כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ.

יט אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ שֶׁהָיְתָה מְעֻבֶּרֶת וְאָמְרָה, עֹבֶר זֶה אֵינוּ מִבַּעְלִי--אֵינָהּ נֶאֱמֶנֶת לְפָסְלוֹ, וַהֲרֵי הַבֵּן בְּחֶזְקַת כַּשְׁרוּת: שֶׁלֹּא הֶאֱמִינָה תּוֹרָה אֵלָא הָאָב. אָמַר הָאָב אֵינוּ בְּנִי, אוֹ שֶׁהָיָה בַּעְלָהּ בִּמְדִינַת הַיָּם--הֲרֵי זֶה בְּחֶזְקַת מַמְזֵר; וְאִם אָמְרָה מִגּוֹי וְעֶבֶד נִתְעַבַּרְתִּי--הֲרֵי הַוֶּלֶד כָּשֵׁר, שְׁאֵין הַבַּעַל יָכוֹל לְהַכְחִישָׁהּ בְּדָבָר זֶה. וְאֵין הָעֹבֶר מִשְׁתַּהֶה בִּמְעֵי אִמּוֹ, יָתֵר עַל שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ.

כ אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ שֶׁיָּצָא עָלֶיהָ קוֹל שְׁהִיא מְזַנָּה תַּחַת בַּעְלָהּ, וְהַכֹּל מְרַנְּנִין אַחֲרֶיהָ--אֵין חוֹשְׁשִׁין לְבָנֶיהָ, שֶׁמֶּא מַמְזְרִים הֶם, שֶׁרֹב בְּעִילוֹת, אֵצֶל הַבַּעַל; וּמֻתָּר לִשָּׂא בִּתָּהּ, לְכַתְּחִלָּה. אֲבָל הִיא עַצְמָהּ, חוֹשְׁשִׁין לָהּ מִשּׁוֹם זוֹנָה; וְאִם הָיְתָה פְּרוּצָה יָתֵר מִדַּי, אַף לְבָנֶיהָ חוֹשְׁשִׁין.

כא דִּין תּוֹרָה שֶׁסְּפֵק מַמְזֵר מֻתָּר לָבוֹא בַּקָּהָל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמָר "לֹא-יָבֹא מַמְזֵר, בִּקְהַל ה'" (דברים כג,ג)--מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי אָסוּר לָבוֹא בַּקָּהָל, וְלֹא סָפֵק; אֲבָל חֲכָמִים עָשׂוּ מַעֲלָה בְּיֵחוּסִין, וְאָסְרוּ כָּל הַסְּפֵקוֹת לָבוֹא בַּקָּהָל. לְפִיכָּךְ מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי, מֻתָּר לִשָּׂא מַמְזֶרֶת וַדָּאִית. אֲבָל מַמְזֵר סָפֵק, אוֹ שְׁתוּקִי, אוֹ אֲסוּפִי--אָסוּר לִשָּׂא בַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל,

כב וְאָסוּר לִשָּׂא מַמְזֶרֶת; וְאַפִלּוּ מַמְזֶרֶת מִסָּפֵק, אֲסוּרָה לוֹ--שֶׁמֶּא אֶחָד מֵהֶן אֵינוּ מַמְזֵר, וְהַשֵּׁנִי מַמְזֵר וַדַּאי. וּמַמְזֵר שֶׁלְּדִבְרֵיהֶם, מֻתָּר לִשָּׂא מַמְזֶרֶת שֶׁלְּדִבְרֵיהֶם. וְכֵן שְׁאָר הַסְּפֵקוֹת, אֲסוּרִין לִשָּׂא זֶה מִזֶּה.

כג כֵּיצַד: שְׁתוּקִים וַאֲסוּפִים וּסְפֵק מַמְזְרִים, אֲסוּרִים לָבוֹא זֶה בְּזֶה; וְאִם נָשְׂאוּ--לֹא יְקַיְּמוּ אֵלָא יוֹצִיאוּ בְּגֶט, וְהַוֶּלֶד סָפֵק כַּאֲבוֹתָיו. וְאֵין לִסְפֵקוֹת אֵלּוּ תַּקָּנָה, אֵלָא שֶׁיִּשְּׂאוּ מִן הַגֵּרִים; וְהַוֶּלֶד הוֹלֵךְ אַחַר הַפָּגוּם.

כד כֵּיצַד: שְׁתוּקִי אוֹ אֲסוּפִי שֶׁנָּשָּׂא גִּיּוֹרֶת אוֹ מְשֻׁחְרֶרֶת, אוֹ גֵּר וּמְשֻׁחְרָר שֶׁנָּשָּׂא שְׁתוּקִית אוֹ אֲסוּפִית--הַוֶּלֶד שְׁתוּקִי אוֹ אֲסוּפִי.

כה הָאֲסוּפִי שֶׁנִּמְצָא בְּעִיר שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהּ גּוֹיִים, בֵּין שֶׁהָיָה רֹב גּוֹיִים אוֹ רֹב יִשְׂרָאֵל--הֲרֵי זֶה סְפֵק גּוֹי לְעִנְיַן יֵחוּסִין; קִדַּשׁ אִשָּׁה, צְרִיכָה גֶּט מִסָּפֵק. מִי שֶׁהֲרָגוֹ, אֵינוּ נֶהְרָג עָלָיו.

כו הִטְבִּילוּהוּ בֵּית דִּין לְשֵׁם גֵּרוּת, אוֹ שֶׁטָּבַל מִשֶּׁהִגְדִּיל--הֲרֵי הוּא כִּשְׁאָר אֲסוּפִים הַנִּמְצָאִים בְּעָרֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל.כב הָיוּ רֹב הָעִיר גּוֹיִים, מֻתָּר לְהַאֲכִילוֹ נְבֵלוֹת וּטְרֵפוֹת; הָיָה רֻבָּן יִשְׂרָאֵל, מַחְזִירִין לוֹ אֲבֵדָתוֹ כְּיִשְׂרָאֵל. מֶחְצָה לְמֶחְצָה--מִצְוָה לְהַחֲיוֹתוֹ כְּיִשְׂרָאֵל, וּמְפַקְּחִין עָלָיו אֶת הַגַּל בַּשַּׁבָּת; וַהֲרֵי הוּא לְעִנְיַן נְזָקִין, כְּכָל סְפֵק מָמוֹן--הַמּוֹצִיא מֵחֲבֵרוֹ, עָלָיו הָרְאָיָה.

כז יֵרָאֶה לִי, שֶׁכָּל מְדִינָה שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהּ שִׁפְחָה אוֹ גּוֹיָה הָרְאוּיָה לְוֶלֶד--הוֹאִיל וְהָאֲסוּפִי הַנִּמְצָא שָׁם סְפֵק גּוֹי אוֹ סְפֵק עֶבֶד, כְּשֶׁיִּשָּׂא הַגִּיּוֹרֶת כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ, הֲרֵי זוֹ סְפֵק אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ, וְהַבָּא עָלֶיהָ פָּטוּר: שְׁאֵין הוֹרְגִין מִסָּפֵק. וְכֵן יֵרָאֶה לִי, שֶׁהַשְּׁתוּקִי שֶׁנָּשָׂא אִשָּׁה שֶׁאִפְשָׁר שְׁהִיא עֶרְוָה עָלָיו--הֲרֵי הִיא סְפֵק אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ, שְׁאֵין קִדּוּשִׁין תּוֹפְסִין בָּעֲרָיוֹת.

כח וְאֵיזוֹ הִיא הָאִשָּׁה שֶׁאִפְשָׁר שֶׁתִּהְיֶה עֶרְוָה עָלָיו--כָּל אִשָּׁה שֶׁהָיָה אָבִיהָ אוֹ אָחִיהָ קַיָּם, כְּשֶׁנִּתְעַבְּרָה בּוֹ אִמּוֹ; וְכָל אִשָּׁה שֶׁנִּתְגָּרְשָׁה אוֹ נִתְאַלְמְנָה, שֶׁמֶּא אֵשֶׁת אָבִיו הִיא אוֹ אֵשֶׁת אֲחִי אָבִיו.

כט וּמְנַיִן אֲנִי אוֹמֵר שְׁאֵין הַשְּׁתוּקִי וְהָאֲסוּפִי אָסוּר בְּכָל אִשָּׁה שֶׁאִפְשָׁר שֶׁתִּהְיֶה עֶרְוָה עָלָיו--שֶׁהֲרֵי הַכָּשֵׁר שֶׁנִּבְדְּקָה אִמּוֹ, אֵינוּ אָסוּר בְּכָל אִשָּׁה שֶׁאִפְשָׁר שֶׁתִּהְיֶה עֶרְוָה עָלָיו. וַהֲרֵי נֶאֱמָר בַּתּוֹרָה "אַל-תְּחַלֵּל אֶת-בִּתְּךָ, לְהַזְנוֹתָהּ" (ויקרא יט,כט); וְאָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים שְׁאִם יַעֲשֶׂה זֶה, נִמְצָא אָב נוֹשֵׂא בִּתּוֹ וְאָח נוֹשֵׂא אֲחוֹתוֹ. וְאִלּוּ הָיָה הַדִּין שֶׁכָּל מִי שְׁאֵינוּ יוֹדֵעַ אָבִיו בַּוַּדַּאי, אָסוּר בְּכָל אִשָּׁה שֶׁאִפְשָׁר שֶׁתִּהְיֶה עֶרְוָה עָלָיו--לֹא הָיִינוּ בָּאִים לַמִּדָּה הַזֹּאת לְעוֹלָם, וְלֹא הָיְתָה הָאָרֶץ מְלֵאָה זִמָּה. הַא לָמַדְתָּ, שְׁאֵין אוֹסְרִין עֲרָיוֹת וּמַחְזִיקִין אוֹתָן בִּשְׁאֵר בָּשָׂר בְּסָפֵק, עַד שֶׁיִּוָּדַע בַּוַּדַּאי שֶׁזּוֹ עֶרְוָה עָלָיו: שְׁאִם אַתָּה אוֹמֵר כֵּן--כָּל הַיְּתוֹמִים שֶׁבָּעוֹלָם שֶׁלֹּא הִכִּירוּ אֲבוֹתֵיהֶם, הָיוּ אֲסוּרִין לְהִנָּשֵׂא בְּכָל מָקוֹם: שֶׁמֶּא יִפְגְּעוּ בְּעֶרְוָה.

ל הַוֶּלֶד שֶׁהָיָה מֻשְׁלָךְ בַּדֶּרֶךְ, וּבָא אֶחָד וְאָמַר בְּנִי הוּא וַאֲנִי הִשְׁלַכְתִּיו--נֶאֱמָן; וְכֵן אִמּוֹ, נֶאֱמֶנֶת. נֶאֱסַף מִן הַשּׁוּק, וּבָאוּ אָבִיו וְאִמּוֹ אַחַר כָּךְ וְאָמְרוּ בְּנֵנוּ הוּא--אֵין נֶאֱמָנִין, הוֹאִיל וְיָצָא עָלָיו שֵׁם אֲסוּפִי; וּבִשְׁנֵי רְעָבוֹן, נֶאֱמָנִין--שֶׁמִּפְּנֵי הָרָעָב הִשְׁלִיכוּהוּ, וְהֶן רוֹצִין שֶׁיָּזוּנוּ אוֹתוֹ אֲחֵרִים, וּלְפִיכָּךְ שָׁתְקוּ, עַד שֶׁנֶּאֱסַף.

לא נִמְצָא הַוֶּלֶד מָהוּל, אוֹ שֶׁהֻמְלַח, אוֹ שֶׁהֻחְתַּל, אוֹ שֶׁהָיָה הַכֹּחַל בְּעֵינָיו, אוֹ הַקְּמִיעִין בְּצַוָּארוֹ, אוֹ שֶׁנִּמְצָא תַּחַת אִילָן מְסֻבָּךְ שְׁאֵין חַיָּה נִכְנֶסֶת לוֹ וְהָיָה סָמוּךְ לָעִיר, אוֹ שֶׁנִּמְצָא בְּבֵית הַכְּנֶסֶת הַסָּמוּךְ לָעִיר, אוֹ בְּצִדֵּי רְשׁוּת הָרַבִּים--אֵין בּוֹ מִשּׁוֹם אֲסוּפִי: מֵאַחַר שְׁהֶן מְשַׁמְּרִין אוֹתוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יָמוּת, בְּחֶזְקַת כָּשֵׁר הוּא. אֲבָל אִם נִמְצָא מֻשְׁלָךְ בְּאֶמְצַע הַדֶּרֶךְ, אוֹ רָחוֹק מִן הָעִיר--אַפִלּוּ תַּחַת אִילָן אוֹ בְּבֵית הַכְּנֶסֶת, אוֹ שֶׁנִּמְצָא תָּלוּי בָּאִילָן מְקוֹם שֶׁהַיָּד מַגַּעַת לוֹ--הֲרֵי זֶה אֲסוּפִי.

לב נֶאֱמֶנֶת חָיָה לוֹמַר זֶה הַבֵּן כּוֹהֵן הוּא, אוֹ לֵוִי, אוֹ נָתִין, אוֹ מַמְזֵר--מִפְּנֵי שֶׁלֹּא הֻחְזַק, וְאֵין אָנוּ יוֹדְעִין יֵחוּסוֹ. בַּמֶּה דְּבָרִים אֲמוּרִים, בְּשֶׁהֻחְזְקָה בְּנֶאֱמָנוּת, וְלֹא עִרְעַר עָלֶיהָ אָדָם. אֲבָל אִם עִרְעַר עָלֶיהָ אַפִלּוּ אֶחָד, וְאָמַר בְּשֶׁקֶר מְעִידָה--אֵינָהּ נֶאֱמֶנֶת; וַהֲרֵי הַבֵּן בְּחֶזְקַת כָּשֵׁר, וְאֵין לוֹ יֵחוּס.

לג דָּבָר בָּרוּר שֶׁהַשְּׁתוּקִי אָסוּר לִשָּׂא שְׁתוּקִית, וְהָאֲסוּפִי אָסוּר בַּאֲסוּפִית, מִפְּנֵי שְׁהֶן סְפֵקוֹת; אֲבָל מַמְזְרִים וַדָּאִיִּים וּנְתִינִים, מֻתָּרִים לָבוֹא זֶה בְּזֶה, וְהַוֶּלֶד מַמְזֵר. וּשְׁתוּקִי וַאֲסוּפִי מֻתָּר בִּנְתִינִים כִּשְׁאָר גֵּרִים, וְהַוֶּלֶד סְפֵק מַמְזֵר.

Laws of Issurei Bi'ah, Chapter 15

1. Who is the "מַמְזֵר" (mamzer, Devarim 23:3) mentioned in the Torah? One who comes from any of the arayos, except a niddah—for a son from her is blemished (pagum) but is not a mamzer. But one who has relations with any of the other arayos, whether under duress or willingly, whether deliberately or unintentionally—the child is a mamzer. Males and females alike are forbidden forever, as it says, "גַּם דּוֹר עֲשִׂירִי, לֹא-יָבֹא" ("even the tenth generation shall not enter," ibid.), that is, forever.

2. Whether a mamzer married a Jewish woman or a Jew married a mamzeres, once they have relations after the kiddushin they receive lashes. If he betrothed her but did not have relations, he does not receive lashes. If he had relations but did not betroth her, they do not receive lashes on account of mamzeres—for among all those liable for negative commandments there is none who receives lashes for relations without kiddushin except a kohen gadol with a widow, as will be explained. One who takes back his divorced wife after she had married another—the child is fit, since she is not an ervah.

3. A non-Jew or a slave who has relations with a Jewish woman—the child is fit, whether she is unmarried or married, whether under duress or willingly. A non-Jew or a slave who has relations with a mamzeres—the child is a mamzer. A mamzer who has relations with a non-Jewish woman—the child is a non-Jew; if he converts, he is fit like other converts. If a mamzer has relations with a shifchah, the child is a slave; if he freed him, the child is fit like other freed slaves and is permitted to a Jewish woman.

4. This is the general rule: a child born of a slave, a non-Jew, a shifchah or a non-Jewish woman follows his mother, and no regard is paid to the father. On this basis they permitted a mamzer to marry a shifchah in order to purify his children—for he frees them, and they turn out to be free men. They did not decree against a shifchah for a mamzer, for the sake of the children's welfare.

5. One who is half slave and half free who has relations with a married woman—that son has no remedy, because the aspect of mamzerus and the aspect of servitude are mixed in him. Therefore he is forbidden to a shifchah, and his children will be like him forever.

6. A non-Jew who has relations with a shifchah who has immersed—the child is a slave; and a slave who has immersed who has relations with a non-Jewish woman—the child is a non-Jew: follow the mother. But a non-Jew who has relations with a non-Jewish maidservant, or a non-Jewish slave who has relations with a free non-Jewish woman—follow the male.

7. A mamzer is permitted to marry a convert woman, and likewise a mamzeres is permitted to a convert; and the children of both are mamzerim, for the child follows the blemished parent, as it says, "בִּקְהַל ה'" ("into the congregation of Hashem," Devarim 23:3), and the congregation of converts is not called the congregation of Hashem.

8. A convert woman who married a convert and they had a son—even though he was conceived and born in holiness, he is permitted to a mamzeres. So too his son's son, until the name of his non-Jewish origin is forgotten from him and it is not known that he is a convert; after that he is forbidden to a mamzeres. Converts and freed slaves alike—one law for all of them.

9. A convert who married a Jewish woman, or a Jew who married a convert woman—the child is a Jew in every respect and is forbidden to a mamzeres.

10. There are three kinds of mamzerim: a definite mamzer, a doubtful mamzer, and a mamzer by the words of the Sofrim. Who is a definite mamzer? One who comes from a definite ervah, as we have explained. A doubtful mamzer is one who comes from a doubtful ervah—for example, one who had relations with a woman whose kiddushin was doubtful, or whose divorce was doubtful, and the like. A woman who heard that her husband had died, and remarried, and her husband was in fact alive, and her husband had relations with her while she was with the second—the son is a mamzer by the words of the Sofrim.

11. An unmarried woman who became pregnant through promiscuity, and they asked her, "What is this fetus" or "this child?"—if she said, "It is a fit child; I had relations with a Jew," she is believed and the child is fit, even if most of the city in which she was promiscuous are disqualified.

12. If his mother was not questioned before she died, or she was deaf-mute, mute or mentally incompetent, or she said, "I had relations with so-and-so the mamzer" or "with so-and-so the nasin," even if that so-and-so admits that the child is from him—this child is a doubtful mamzer, for just as she was promiscuous with this one who admitted it, so she was promiscuous with another. This is the one called a shesuki (a "silenced one")—who knows his mother but does not know his father with certainty.

13. Likewise a child found in the marketplace, who is called an asufi (a foundling), is a doubtful mamzer, for we do not know what he is.

14. An unmarried woman who was promiscuous and said, "This son is the son of so-and-so"—if that so-and-so is fit, the son is fit; but she is not believed that this is the son of so-and-so. And it appears to me that we take her words into account, and the son is forbidden to the relatives of that so-and-so out of doubt. If that so-and-so is a mamzer, she is not believed to make the son a definite mamzer by her word, as we have explained; rather, he is a doubtful mamzer.

15. But a father who is established as the father of this son, and who says, "This son of mine is a mamzer," is believed. If the son has children, he is not believed, for the Torah believed him only regarding his son, as it says, "כִּי אֶת-הַבְּכֹר בֶּן-הַשְּׂנוּאָה יַכִּיר" ("but he shall acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the hated one," Devarim 21:17)—he shall make him recognized to others.

16. Just as he is believed to say, "This son of mine is a firstborn," so he is believed to say that he is a mamzer, or the son of a divorcee, or the son of a chalutzah. Likewise, if his wife was pregnant, he is believed to say, "This fetus is not my son, and he is a mamzer," and he is a definite mamzer. One who says of himself that he is a mamzer is believed to forbid himself to a Jewish woman, but he is forbidden to a mamzeres until it becomes known that he is a mamzer. His son is like him; but if he has grandchildren, he is not believed to disqualify his grandchildren, and he disqualifies only himself.

17. A betrothed woman (arusah) who became pregnant while in her father's house—the child is presumed to be a mamzer; he is forbidden to a Jewish woman and forbidden to a mamzeres. If his mother was questioned and said, "I became pregnant from my arus (betrothed husband)," she is believed and the child is fit. If the arus contradicts her and says, "I never had relations with her," the child is a mamzer—for even if he were established as his son and said, "This son of mine is a mamzer," he would be believed. The woman is not presumed to be a zonah; rather, she is believed to say, "I had relations with my arus," and she is not a zonah. If she married a kohen, she does not have to leave him, and her child from him is fit.

18. If people were spreading rumors about her, while she was betrothed, with her arus and with other men—even though her arus had relations with her in his father-in-law's house, this child is a doubtful mamzer: just as she made herself available to her arus, she made herself available to others. If she was questioned and said, "This fetus is from my arus," he is fit, as we have explained.

19. A married woman who was pregnant and said, "This fetus is not from my husband," is not believed to disqualify him, and the son is presumed fit, for the Torah believed only the father. If the father said, "He is not my son," or her husband was overseas, the child is presumed to be a mamzer. If she said, "I became pregnant from a non-Jew or a slave," the child is fit, for the husband cannot contradict her in this. A fetus does not remain in its mother's womb more than twelve months.

20. A married woman about whom a rumor went out that she is promiscuous while with her husband, and everyone is talking about her—we do not suspect that her children are mamzerim, for most acts of relations are with the husband; and one may marry her daughter even at the outset. But regarding herself, we suspect her on account of zonah; and if she was exceedingly licentious, we suspect even her children.

21. By Torah law a doubtful mamzer is permitted to enter the kahal, as it says, "לֹא-יָבֹא מַמְזֵר, בִּקְהַל ה'" ("a mamzer shall not enter the congregation of Hashem," Devarim 23:3)—a definite mamzer is forbidden to enter the kahal, but not a doubtful one. But the Sages made a stringency regarding lineage and forbade all the doubtful cases to enter the kahal. Therefore a definite mamzer is permitted to marry a definite mamzeres. But a doubtful mamzer, a shesuki or an asufi is forbidden to marry a Jewish woman,

22. and is forbidden to marry a mamzeres; even a doubtful mamzeres is forbidden to him, lest one of them is not a mamzer and the other is a definite mamzer. A mamzer by their words is permitted to marry a mamzeres by their words. Likewise, the other doubtful cases are forbidden to marry one another.

23. How so? Shesukim, asufim and doubtful mamzerim are forbidden to marry one another; and if they married, they may not remain together but must separate with a get, and the child is doubtful like his parents. These doubtful cases have no remedy except to marry converts, and the child follows the blemished parent.

24. How so? A shesuki or an asufi who married a convert or a freed woman, or a convert or freed slave who married a shesukis or an asufis—the child is a shesuki or an asufi.

25. An asufi found in a city in which there are non-Jews, whether the majority were non-Jews or the majority were Jews, is a doubtful non-Jew with regard to lineage. If he betrothed a woman, she requires a get out of doubt. One who killed him is not executed for it.

26. If the beis din immersed him for the sake of conversion, or he immersed after he grew up, he is like other asufim found in Jewish cities. If most of the city were non-Jews, one may feed him neveilos and tereifos; if most of them were Jews, his lost object is returned to him as to a Jew. If it is half and half, it is a mitzvah to sustain him as a Jew, and one clears a heap of rubble off him on Shabbos; and regarding damages he is like any case of monetary doubt—the one who seeks to extract from his fellow bears the burden of proof.

27. It appears to me that in any country in which there is a shifchah or a non-Jewish woman capable of bearing a child—since the asufi found there is a doubtful non-Jew or a doubtful slave, when he marries a convert woman as we have explained, she is a doubtful married woman, and one who has relations with her is exempt, for we do not execute on a doubt. Likewise it appears to me that a shesuki who married a woman who may possibly be an ervah to him—she is a doubtful married woman, for kiddushin does not take effect with the arayos.

28. Which is the woman who may possibly be an ervah to him? Any woman whose father or brother was alive when his mother conceived him; and any woman who was divorced or widowed—perhaps she is his father's wife or his father's brother's wife.

29. From where do I say that a shesuki or an asufi is not forbidden to every woman who may possibly be an ervah to him? For a fit person whose mother was questioned is not forbidden to every woman who may possibly be an ervah to him. And it says in the Torah, "אַל-תְּחַלֵּל אֶת-בִּתְּךָ, לְהַזְנוֹתָהּ" ("do not profane your daughter by making her a harlot," Vayikra 19:29), and the Sages said that if one does this, a father will end up marrying his daughter and a brother marrying his sister. If the law were that anyone who does not know his father with certainty is forbidden to every woman who may possibly be an ervah to him, we would never come to this measure, and the land would not become full of lewdness. You have thus learned that we do not forbid arayos, nor presume people to be blood relatives, on the basis of doubt, until it is known with certainty that this woman is an ervah to him. For if you were to say so, all the orphans in the world who did not know their fathers would be forbidden to marry anywhere, lest they come upon an ervah.

30. A child who was abandoned on the road, and someone came and said, "He is my son, and I abandoned him," is believed; and likewise his mother is believed. If he was taken in from the marketplace, and afterwards his father and mother came and said, "He is our son," they are not believed, since he has acquired the name of asufi. In years of famine they are believed, for they abandoned him because of the famine and wanted others to sustain him, and therefore they were silent until he was taken in.

31. If the child was found circumcised, or salted, or swaddled, or with kohl in his eyes, or with amulets on his neck; or he was found under a tangled tree that no animal can enter and it was near the city; or he was found in a synagogue near the city, or at the sides of a public thoroughfare—he does not have the status of an asufi. Since they took care that he not die, he is presumed fit. But if he was found abandoned in the middle of the road, or far from the city—even under a tree or in a synagogue—or he was found hanging on a tree in a place the hand can reach, he is an asufi.

32. A midwife is believed to say, "This child is a kohen," or "a Levi," or "a nasin," or "a mamzer," because his status has not been established and we do not know his lineage. When does this apply? When she is established as trustworthy and no one challenged her. But if even one person challenged her and said, "She testifies falsely," she is not believed; the child is presumed fit, and he has no lineage.

33. It is clear that a shesuki is forbidden to marry a shesukis, and an asufi is forbidden to an asufis, because they are doubtful cases. But definite mamzerim and Nesinim are permitted to marry one another, and the child is a mamzer. A shesuki and an asufi are permitted to Nesinim like other converts, and the child is a doubtful mamzer.

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